tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4895486093759063472024-03-19T10:16:43.765+00:00SLICE OF LIFE :: Living (with Young Onset Parkinson's)Living life to the full, with humour and hope.Jon Stamfordhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10784772414018652597noreply@blogger.comBlogger44125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-69612345594782755642016-05-27T10:38:00.000+01:002016-05-27T10:42:22.168+01:00Moving on<span style="font-size: x-large;">All future blog postings will be at www.jonstamford.com - please redirect your browser there.</span>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-44368514316391979882015-06-09T20:39:00.003+01:002015-06-09T21:45:46.299+01:00TEATIMENo matter how busy we are in the office, there's always time for tea. Somebody will finish a phone call, send an e-mail, sign a cheque and decide that this is a convenient moment for tea. There is an almost Zen like quality to the moment, similar to the tachi-ai in sumo, when, from that tiny moment of stillness, pandemonium erupts. Well, I say pandemonium but what I really mean is flickering of interest.<br />
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And in an office largely full of girls, I should immediately clarify that the point of similarity is that Zen-like stillness, not the imminent collision of mountains of flesh. That's how misunderstandings happen.<br />
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I think I have probably rather overstretched this simile to be honest. I'd probably better disguise their names as well. Better safe than sorry.<br />
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Anyway, I digress. Someone calls "tea anyone?" and pandemonium erupts. Sorry, mild interest. Funnily enough, the words "mild flicker of interest" are not usually followed by the word "erupts". Sometimes the English language can be strangely restrictive.<br />
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Where was I? Oh yes, tea. I don't usually come into the office more than a day a week. Mostly I work from home and, in a domestic context, tea time largely fails to reproduce that frisson of excitement found in the office. It takes on the quality more of a refuelling stop. A chance to take on fluid and nothing more. But in the office, there is always the unwritten possibility of more. If there has been a board meeting in the morning, or a committee, or working party, there is always the promise of flapjacks, millionaire shortbread or even, if we have been visited by knights of the realm, an outside chance of Jaffa cakes.<br />
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But irrespective of the circumstances, there is the business of tea itself. It would be easy if everyone drank exactly the same formulation of tea -- say one tea bag, milk and 1 teaspoon of sugar. That would be easy. Predictably, in an office full of larger-than-life characters (no, girls, I mean metaphorically -- not a sumo reference), everyone takes their tea slightly differently.<br />
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Of course, being in the office together full-time, each knows the others' preferences. They barely have to nod to each other. It's the kind of unwritten communication that you find in a flange of gorillas or a congress of baboons. Again, I'm not likening the girls in the office to groups of primates. They may share make-up tips but I have never seen them picking insects off each other.<br />
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Anyway, as a less frequent visitor to the flange, sorry office, I find myself struggling to remember who takes what in their tea. Or even who takes tea. In the space of 10 yards, from the office door to the kitchen, I have forgotten not only how people wanted their tea but also who wanted tea at all. On a bad day I may even forget who is in the office.<br />
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To resolve this, I hit on a master plan. Being by nature a scientist, I would prepare a crib sheet of everyone's tea preferences (and coffee for that matter) and put this in the kitchen, where needed. If Ellen wanted coffee (she doesn't drink tea), I would simply check the appropriate column, add a level teaspoon of coffee powder and pour a splash of milk into the cup. Or if Lisa wanted tea, she would prefer it without milk but with a single sugar.<br />
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Foolproof, I think you'll agree. And I could hardly wait until 3 PM to put my system to the test. Finally, there would be no barely veiled looks of disappointment from the team when presented with unsolicited or incorrectly prepared beverages. Nothing was left to chance. I had all their preferences down in black-and-white. This would be a triumph of science over chaos.<br />
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Except that on this particular occasion, Ellen elected, for the first time in a decade, to take tea instead of coffee. Hannah refused to submit to my coffee formula by insisting that she would only drink real coffee and, as for tea, would only touch a formulation she had encountered somewhere in the far east. And Lisa's tea went to Sam, since I had somehow failed to notice she had left the office three hours earlier. Observation is not my strong suit.<br />
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Still it's not without benefits -- it's highly unlikely I will ever be asked to make the tea again. Silver linings and all that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-20605319758582418062015-06-04T18:11:00.000+01:002015-06-05T06:47:42.530+01:00DESPERATION OR INSPIRATIONWhen you are newly diagnosed with Parkinson's, you find yourself on an information rollercoaster. You are inundated with information, weighed down with websites, pummelled by pamphlets and awash with advice. Everyone seems determined to tell you what you should do, when you should do it and what will happen if you don't (or sometimes even if you do). We talk of Parkinson's as a journey and, just as we're slipping on our metaphorical trainers, people are hastening to tell us about the rigours of the journey and the toll it will take. Whether they believe themselves to be helpful or not, there seems to be a need among some of the gloomier 'old hands' to make you share their despondency, their apathy and loss of spirit.<br />
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For these people, all life was sucked out of their bodies by the diagnosis. They sit quietly in a corner of God's waiting room waiting for their appointment. These are people who never get beyond the 'why me' question, people whose sense of victimisation by the illness gnaws at their being. These are people for whom wallowing in self-pity is the norm,<br />
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Misery attracts misery. The glums are never happier than when sharing their wealth of experience with a Parkinson's rookie, watching cannibalistically as they draw the life force out of their victim. Some don't even realise they're doing it. Others take some perverted comfort in dragging people down rather than lifting them up.<br />
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Parkinson's is like that. As a good friend of mine explained, the same thing that makes us frail also gives us power. The value of that experience is incalculable. Our narrative of the illness can be used for good or bad. We can do irreparable harm or inestimable good. We can become dementors or beacons. And these are not predetermined paths, the unalterable expression of Parkinson's on the human psyche.<br />
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These are choices. We have the capacity, when faced with Parkinson's, to avert our gaze and cower, beaten, in a corner. It's the soft option, passive and victimised. Or we can stand tall, stare this intruder in the eye and decide to do our best. Not just for ourselves, but also for others.<br />
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Parkinson's gives us that power. And it does so in direct proportion to our experience. The longer we have had Parkinson's, the more valuable and credible is our experience of the condition and the more sought-after is our opinion. That is power. But with that power comes responsibility. We can wield that strength for good or bad.<br />
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I've been lucky. Although my early experience of Parkinson's, and people with Parkinson's, was dispiriting, it was not terminally disabling. Among the many dementors, somehow I found, or was attracted to, people whose indomitable spirit fought back against the condition -- people who, as the condition took more and more from them, seemed to find more to give. People who would not submit to the condition but resisted with fearless determination. People who come from all walks of life -- a teacher from Tennessee, a surveyor from Hertfordshire, a boxer from Norfolk, a nurse from New Zealand and more.<br />
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Parkinson's is tough, certainly. It is, as Michael J Fox once memorably said 'the gift that keeps on taking'. It will make demands on you as it progresses and how you face those demands will say much about you as a person. I have been fortunate to have met people who, in the words of Val Doonican (and I can't quite believe that I am quoting the prince of knitwear), " walk tall, walk straight and look the world right in the eye".Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-52478585024294321722015-05-07T06:25:00.003+01:002015-05-07T06:25:46.427+01:00VOTE VOTE VOTE<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Today is a momentous day in British politics -- the first general election in which it is impossible to know how people will vote. In the old days of Tory, Liberal and Labour parties it was much easier. The Liberals, having self-destructed by their association with the current Conservative regime, could be ignored. The swing to the left or right, applied nationally, was a fairly accurate predictor of the outcome.<br />
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This election is complicated by the additional presence of UKIP (United Kingdom Independence party). UKIP, for the benefit of overseas friends, is essentially a single issue party. Normally such a thing could be swiftly discounted but, such is the potency of that message to some socioeconomic strata, there is a realistic possibility, if the papers are to be believed, that they may hold the balance of power in a hung parliament. There is even the spectre, however remote, that they might be elected.<br />
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I suspect tonight will be an all nighter, watching as the results come in on the drama unfolds. Although we have never had proportional representation, the UK prides itself that its "first past the post" version of democracy allows for strong government and prevents electoral extremism. Today will be the toughest possible test of that tenet.<br />
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Although only a small island in northern Europe, the UK remains disproportionately influential on a world stage and we will not be deluding ourselves when we say that the eyes of the political world will be on us today. Our position in Europe and the world, indeed our credibility as a democratic country, is at stake. It is not melodramatic to say that the future of world democracy hangs in some way on the actions we, the voters, take today.<br />
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Today is the day for serious decisions. We have a responsibility to ourselves, our families and the family of nations to use our vote wisely. Whether we vote for the status quo, a step into the unknown or any point in between, we should do what we have to do with our heads held high. We may look back on today, either with hope or fear, as the day which changed the world. It's that important.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-26761325911885173982014-08-14T11:22:00.000+01:002014-08-14T11:22:33.428+01:00A memorable road trip<span style="font-size: x-small;"><div dir="LTR">
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<span style="font-size: small;">This account is taken from my first book SLICE OF LIFE, obtainable from Amazon. http://www.amazon.co.uk/Jon-Stamford/e/B00JBEPPY2/ref=sr_tc_2_0?qid=1408005163&sr=1-2-ent</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Two decades ago, I worked in Indiana, part of America’s almost mythical Midwest. Bloomington, a college town and home of the Hoosiers was little more than a small dab of green paint on a huge agricultural canvas. It was high summer and rain hadn’t fallen in nearly six months. Fields, normally, shoulder-high and plump with corn, were dry, bleached flats that stretched out to infinity. When the tractors weren’t shimmering in the heat on the open plains, they raised dusty swirls, twists and eddies that glided silently like spectral figures over the distant horizon. Television talked of The Dust Bowl, and those who lived through the 1930s spoke of the similarities and drew anxious parallels. This was the land of Steinbeck, of Tom Joad and the Grapes of Wrath.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Along with friends, I was invited to speak at a conference in Kansas, 500 miles away. We could have flown but chose to drive, in a rattling hired sedan without air conditioning, hour after soporific hour, on arrow-straight undulating roads strung with telegraph poles, the monotony broken only by occasional animal carcasses or rusted flatbeds, abandoned where they had fallen. "Welcome to nowhere" read the faded graffiti on one decaying Chevy. Through Vincennes, St Louis, Columbia and Independence, and on towards Lawrence on Interstate 70, we played away the hours with tapes of Tom Waits, as we gradually assumed the manners and personae of Kerouac, Cassady and Ginsberg. We left the interstate, with its honking horns, and set off on a two-lane blacktop. Apart from occasional trucks, we had the road to ourselves</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Night fell swiftly in August on the summer plains and, as the stars filled that ink-black prairie sky, the fuel gauge gradually slipped into the red, and we thumbed the map for our location. Nowhere - just as the graffiti had said. As Joe tapped the fuel gauge, we reached another brow in the road. A flickering sign in the distance read "Food. Gas" with that laconic precision so prevalent throughout the plains states. As the car coughed, we pulled in to a tiny one-pump gas station. It felt like a step back in time. On the far side of the road was a chalk-white steer skull on a pole. While Joe fuelled the car, Lesley and I stretched our legs, the air still hot from the day. A man in faded overalls and a grease-stained baseball cap emerged from a tiny shack-shop of breeze blocks with a tin roof, kicking the dust as he walked. "Do you have food?" I asked. There was the long pause of a man used to spending his words carefully. "Got all you need there" he said, nodding to the shop "Annie Mae’ll help you"</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">A moth fluttered behind a dirty cracked window next to an antique Coke machine that groaned and burped as its refrigerator fought hopelessly against the heat. A small bell tinkled as I opened the door. Somewhere in the distance the long prairie wail of a goods train pierced the night’s silence. I picked Monterey Jack cheese, ham, sesame rolls and rootbeer and placed them on the cracked red Formica counter next to a small tarnished brass bell. As I reached for the bell, there was a rustle of the fly curtain at the back of the shop. "Hello" I called. "Be with you" said a girl’s voice. "Annie Mae?" I asked and she smiled, all freckles and dimples, as she totted up the groceries on the corner of a newspaper in her childish hand. She licked the pencil tip then pronounced "That be five dollars and forty three cents". She held up her open hand to signal ‘five’ and giggled. I saw she was missing a thumb. "Funny girl" I said. She laughed.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">I realised my wallet was missing the moment I reached into my trousers and slapped my pockets in the reflex movements of a man unexpectedly penniless. "Vincennes" I said to myself, as I remembered leaving it on the counter of the Dairy Queen, where we had stopped for cones in the late afternoon. Five hours earlier and two hundred miles back on the Interstate. "I have money in the car" I said in explanation. "Back in a minute".</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">"Well we need to find a bank in the morning" said Lesley "cos I've just spent our last fifteen bucks on gas". Like royalty, Joe never carried money, always relying on Lesley. I explained about the ice cream parlour in Vincennes.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">"Annie Mae, I have no money. I'm really sorry" I stuttered and began to put the groceries back. Even in the half light of the shop, my beetroot red face must have been obvious. "It's okay" she said "take the food. You can pay on your way back". </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">I protested. But Annie Mae would have none of it. "Just don't tell my pop" she winked. And giggled.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">As we spluttered out onto the highway again and gathered speed, I told Joe and Lesley about Annie Mae and the food. "Real cute" said Lesley. "Real dumb" said Joe, sparking a row between the two.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">We were in Lawrence for two days. Two days hot enough to fry eggs on the bonnet of the car. I did the lecture, with voice barely audible over the air conditioning, my slides buckling in the heat from the projector. I told the listeners of dopamine receptors and the nigrostriatal pathway, of dysregulation and dopamine transporters. Everything I knew about Parkinson’s (I used to be a neuroscientist, remember). There were questions too, mostly interested in why an Englishman was in Kansas. "Just following the Yellow Brick Road" I said until it wasn’t funny any more. I was shown around the labs, invited to dinner with the faculty members, and guest of honour at a lake party on a bright yellow pontoon boat where we ate slices of watermelon washed down with Coors from the cooler.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Thursday came, muffins and ham for breakfast and then on the road to Nowhere. Or wherever it was that we had stopped for gas and food on Monday night. On a two to one majority, we persuaded Joe to drive back to the garage and give Annie Mae her five dollars and forty three cents, all in shiny new coins. As Joe grumbled and muttered, we looked out for the garage. Mile after mile of dusty emptiness. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Then I saw the cattle skull. We pulled over and I picked up the envelope with the money. The garage looked different. They must have replaced the aged single pump. Two fancy new Texaco pumps stood there.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">I looked around. Where was the shop? The breezeblock hut was nowhere. Instead a small glass fronted shop with plastic fittings occupied the space. A middle-aged man emerged. "Need gas?" he asked. "No" I said "I need to give some money to the girl".</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">He nodded in the direction of the corn field opposite. "She bin in the field some twenty years now". His voice faltered. "Buried her there the night her pop brought her in, knocked down by a truck. Folks left their food behind so she ran across the road after them. She was kind like that. Always looking to help. Buried her pop a week later. Wouldn't eat or drink. His little angel she was. Called her Angel Annie somedays".</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">There are essentially two options. The first is to buy the books. More than four years of blog can be found in the books on the left. In order of publication (and chronological order), they are SLICE OF LIFE, COMING TO TERMS, A PIECE OF MY MIND and finally HEADS OR TALES. The books are available direct from the publisher (www.lulu.com) or from Amazon. They cost around £10 each and, if it helps you to decide, half of the royalties go to The Cure Parkinson's Trust, a charity devoted to finding a cure for this illness.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">But for many, dipping into the blog is all you want. And with that in mind, I have decided to publish a random blog from the archive each week. Depending on time and suchlike, I may update each posting with new information, comments, jokes or whatever springs to mind. If nothing else, they will be a nostalgic ramble through past moments. And although Slice of Life is essentially retired, just to keep you on your toes, I might even slip in the occasional new posting.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Does that sound like a plan?</span></span>Jon Stamfordhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10784772414018652597noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-18292132520207750902014-03-17T11:07:00.002+00:002014-03-17T11:07:55.350+00:00So long<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">When I started writing Slice of Life, I never seriously imagined that I would write as many words as I have. Nor indeed that anyone would wish to read them. It was intended as a bit of fun, a writing exercise in part, and a way of coming to terms with a life that was to be changed by Parkinson's.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">I resolved from the first that this would not be a detailed medical appraisal of life with Parkinson's. Nor would it chart family life in isolation from the condition. I intended it to be a reflection of my way of dealing with these things, light-hearted and positive. And for the most part I would like to think that I have succeeded in those objectives. I don't believe in dwelling on those things that one cannot change. I do believe in channelling one's energies into those arenas where an impact can be made.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">A lot has changed in the five years since I started writing. In 2009, Catherine and Alice were teenagers, getting to grips with GCSEs and A-levels. Family life was boisterous and brash, Hogarthian almost. Mealtimes were rowdy and stimulating as everyone chattered about their day. Problems were aired, solved and softened. The house was littered with musical instruments, cricket bats, homework and clothes. Bedlam.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">And my Parkinson's, barely two years post diagnosis and no more than an irritating tremor, barely impinged. We joked about spaghetti and soup, shaking cocktails and so on. We knew all the jokes and in many ways, it was little more than a joke. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">But that's the thing with Parkinson's. It's like grandmother's footsteps. You turn your back for a fraction of a second and, in a thousand little ways, it creeps up on you. You can't turn your back for a minute. But if you don't turn your back on the illness, you find yourself turning your back on life. The desire to fight the illness becomes all-consuming. The desire to resist each new symptom, each new advance of the frontline, takes over your life. Not overnight. But gradually and by degrees.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">Fighting Parkinson's is a war. Keeping the family together is another. We shouldn't be surprised that this battlefield is littered with casualties. Over the seven years since I was diagnosed with Parkinson's, I have met wonderful people -- good men and true -- destroyed by an inability to fight on two fronts. I have seen people keep symptoms at bay only at the expense of the destruction of their families. I have seen men walk away from their families, unable to share the journey any more. And there are others who remain doting fathers and loyal husbands to their families, who sob themselves to sleep at night, dropping the mask only when alone.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">The drugs don't help. Well, of course, they do. Before the advent of levodopa, there was next to nothing to treat Parkinson's. From diagnosis to death took around five years. If I had been born into the world 50 years earlier, and diagnosed in 1956, it would have been a different story. There would have been no blog to read. I would have lost the ability to write by 1958. I would not be able to feed myself by 1960. And in 1961, as the Beatles played at the Cavern Club, you would have laid me in my grave. I would not have seen my children grow up. I would not have seen them leave home. And their enduring memories of their father would have been a frozen, bedridden, hospitalised skeleton unable to feed himself. Not much of a legacy.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">So yes, the drugs do help. I am alive today because they help. But there is a price to pay. Sure, I can still walk. Sometimes even run. And I can still feed myself. In fact, on the basis of my expanding girth, this is an area I have completely bossed. And my tremors are not yet disabling. All things considered, I am fighting the good fight against the Parkinson's. I have a lot to be thankful for. And believe me, I am truly thankful. In some ways, the blog and the books are my way of saying how thankful I am. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">But sometimes Parkinson's takes you to places you don't want to go. It can make you into another person. Someone you don't recognise. Somebody you don't even like. It may even be a coping mechanism, a way of living with the illness, for all I know.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">For the last five years, I have chronicled my life with Parkinson's. I have tried to be honest about the impact it has on my family. Time moves on, the illness moves on and, in many ways, the family moves on. The girls have now left home and Alex is absorbed with everything that being a 16-year-old boy entails. Mealtimes are quiet. He misses his sisters. I miss my daughters.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">And I sometimes feel that I have spent so much time writing about family life that I have become an observer rather than a participant. Perhaps, in chronicling life, I have become detached from it. Will my children look back on this time and wonder who the imposter pretending to be Dad actually was. Seven years ago, fighting Parkinson's was my battle. And the blog was part of that battle.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">"I like reading the blog, Dad. It's the only way I know what you're doing and thinking".</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">Thank you for reading this blog over the last five years. It won't be easy but it's time to put down the pen. My children deserve their father back.</span></span><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-22227989978592233212014-03-06T10:17:00.003+00:002014-03-06T10:17:41.907+00:00Preston goes nuclear!<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">I'm not in the habit of commenting on the news but every once in awhile there is a news item so extraordinary that it simply cannot be ignored. And in the news this week is the story of Jamie Edwards's school science project. Not for Jamie the usual schoolboy trivia. No seed trays full of germinating broad beans. No circuit boards with lightbulbs and buzzers.</span><br />
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<span style="color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">This is the kind of ambition that school teachers in my day used to reward with a gold star or a clip around the ears depending on their perception of the schoolboy's intent. Honest ambition, however misplaced, was laudable. A desire to belittle the syllabus with facetious and time wasting plundering of the equipment stores was treated equally decisively. Evidently Jamie's teachers concluded the former. I'm sure they even had their words ready to praise the valiant attempt. All well and good except for one tiny detail.</span><br />
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<span style="color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">That's right -- nuclear reactor as in Sellafield. Something that creates new isotopes and releases energy. Evidently Jamie Edwards is not the kind of lad who wastes time fiddling around with magnets and iron filings in double science, or sending smutty texts to Katrina Biggs in 5C. No, he is clearly made of different stuff. And I don't want to prejudge matters but I'm going to stick my neck out here and say that I'm pretty certain he is on for an A* in his GCSEs. It's going to be pretty brave examiner who picks him up on spelling.</span><br />
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<span style="color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">And I wouldn't want to be Frankie Barton who once held his head down the toilet before games. After all, it's not every day that you wake up to find your victim is now a global nuclear superpower. By any standards of bullying, that is an epic fail. </span><br />
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<span style="color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">Jamie: Good. we made a nuclear reactor.</span><br />
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<span style="color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">Mum: That's nice dear. Did you remember to hand in your geography?</span><br />
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<span style="color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">Mum: And did you have to do detention again?</span><br />
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<span style="color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">Jamie: We made a nuclear reactor. Lots of journalists came.</span><br />
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<span style="color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">Mum: Well I hope you remembered your pleases and thankyous. It's pizza for tea.</span><br />
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<span style="color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">Jamie: Do you know what a nuclear reactor is, Mum?</span><br />
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<span style="color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">Mum: Is it one of those things Mrs Treadwell had for getting rid of moles in the garden?</span><br />
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<span style="color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">Jamie: No Mum, it's a way of producing energy. A lot of energy.</span><br />
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<span style="color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">Mum: Well if it helps you get you out of bed in the morning, that's good. Oh and somebody called Cameron phoned for you this</span><span style="color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">orning. Didn't say what he wanted. I expect he is one of those Social Security snoopers.</span><br />
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<span style="color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">The nuclear reactor itself is, you will be interested to hear, the size of a lunchbox. In fact it's exactly the size of a lunchbox. To all intents and purposes, it is a lunchbox. And I don't know whether to find out comforting or alarming. Comforting in the sense that it is less likely to cause the next Harrisburg, Chernobyl or Fukuhima. Or alarming that so much power can be found in something so small. </span><br />
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<span style="color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">You can imagine Mr Curry, the science master, conducting his risk assessment before they started the project. Safety spectacles -- check, lab coat -- check, notebook -- check, pencils and Biro -- check, fire extinguisher -- check, 3 m thickness lead enclosure -- oops, environmental radiation monitoring -- oops again. Oh never mind, tell the prefects to lock the lab door. And don't let 3C eat their sandwiches in there. </span><br />
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<span style="color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">I don't want to be a wet blanket but I can't help feeling that there are few Health and Safety issues here. The school's manual has plenty to say about bullying, nits, and drugs but is decidedly light on advice for safe management of nuclear power stations. It doesn't come up that often. And probably not issues that are covered by the standard manual.</span><br />
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<span style="color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">As for Jamie, he's already thinking toward A-levels. His next project is a hadron collider. He's begun collecting empty baked bean tins.</span><br />
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<span style="color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">And you wouldn't bet against him. After all, it's not every 13-year-old boy who has President Obama on Snap Chat.</span></span><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-26293514809736817702014-03-02T03:02:00.002+00:002014-03-05T09:36:23.793+00:00Personality Test
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<span style="color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Anyway, against my better judgement, I completed one of these pieces of cappuccino psychobabble, brought to my attention by Facebook. Twenty multiple choice questions and the questionnaire would spit out a two word stereotype.</span></div>
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<span style="color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It will surprise nobody to learn that I am a "Dreamy Idealist". The report put flesh on these bones with the reassurance that this was "one of the introverted personality types". </span></div>
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<span style="color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In an effort to further expand the stereotype, I learned that I "prefer a quiet work environment, free from repeated distractions". So the circus clowns, wild animals and dancing girls who would normally fill my home office have to go then? </span></div>
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<span style="color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Apparently, the report goes on, I am "grateful for a certain measure of order and structure" and my "capability to concentrate is unusually great", which seems to stand at odds with my need for a quiet work environment. If my concentration is that brilliant, couldn't the dancing girls stay?</span></div>
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<span style="color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I am apparently a man of paradoxes. I need peace and solitude yet also enjoy working together with others. Come on guys -- pick one. Either I am a misanthropic loner or a happy-go-lucky team player. But then Mr Happy-Go-Lucky would not "take critique and negative feedback very personally". That response would sit more naturally with Mr Misanthropic Loner, plugging bullets into the clip of an AK-47. <br />
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<span style="color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Yet amazingly, and despite the many glaring paradoxes, this is the kind of profile that companies increasingly use to try and match applicants to jobs. And for that matter, it is intended also to provide the profilee with some indication of those employment options to which they are best suited. Adrenaline fuelled, power crazed yuppies are likely to make poor librarians for instance. And so on. But it's hardly an exact science -- or science at all really. You might as well use ink blots.</span></div>
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<span style="color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Thinking of ink blots takes me back 40 years to my school and, at that time a fairly decent traditional boys boarding school education. Unfortunately, tradition still substituted for intelligent career guidance. For generations, a third of the sixth form each year had gone to Oxford or Cambridge, another third to "other" universities and the remainder were mopped up by Sandhurst. In the face of this rigid progression, careers advice at my school was predictably lamentable. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">All of which technological ineptitude was surprising. Mankind had just put a man on the moon. How difficult, by comparison, could it possibly be to make a cup of tea?</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">My father, born of good Yorkshire stock, has never been prone to impulse purchases. He believes now, and believed even more then, in the value of taking your time over decision-making. We were the last house in Doncaster to have colour television. And it is only in the last year, with my father in his 80s, that he has tentatively enquired about computers. Back in the 1970s, my father was in his pomp. When it came to buying white goods, he would ensure that he knew the price of every comparable refrigerator within a five-mile radius. Armed with this information, he would then stride into Currys to buy the product in question at the price he had mentally set. The conclusion was foregone, and experienced salesmen usually capitulated immediately rather than face a negotiating style that, to this day, I believe was the model for Darth Vader.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Not surprisingly then, the Teasmade was a memorable blot on his copy book.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">My attitude to purchasing household goods has strong elements of my father's thoroughness and sense of value (Yorkshire genes are of course dominant), but is executed more rapidly thanks to Google. The same diligent research, of which my father would be proud, can now be conducted in minutes rather than weeks, giving it a somewhat impetuous, nay impulsive, air.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">And I'm constantly surprised at the range of prices available for consumer items. Take photography for instance. As broad a church as there is. Everything from the happy snappy through to the career professional. A camera can cost £10 or £10,000. And it's understandable -- these are fancy bits of kit. The same goes for hi-fi. All perfectly plausible for state-of-the-art electronics. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">The cheapest toaster I could find (made by a company called Lloytron -- and no, I've never heard of them) cost £11.34 and was available in a choice of three colours. For this price, the toaster featured a seven stage variable control and a "midcycle cancel button" although I imagine unplugging it would achieve much the same. There is also a slide out crumb tray. So, not perhaps the most sophisticated device on earth but then all it has to do is make toast.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">And it's hard to see how the process could be made more sophisticated or more expensive. After all, a device that (a) makes toast and (b) allows you to make it to your preference would appear to achieve somewhere between 99% and 100% of the functionality required of a toaster.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">At the opposite end of the price range, and representing the aristocracy of toast making is a roller toaster made by Paderno (nope, I've never heard of them either). I've no idea what a roller toaster is although, with a pricetag of £1818.13, it costs about as much as a Roller. And yes, that is not a typo. It really is possible to spend the best part of two grand on a toaster.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Now I don't want to be a curmudgeon but I would take quite a bit of persuading to buy the Paderno. For that price I could have 160 Lloytron toasters, enough to cater for an army of toast eaters. Or I could have a brand-new toaster every week for more than three years. And I can't even compare the specification. Nowhere on the Internet is there a single review of this toast making colossus. Not a single person is prepared to tell me why a machine which costs as much as 36,000 slices of bread is an essential addition to my kitchen.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Perhaps I'm barking up the wrong tree with the toaster. Let's simplify things further -- how about the electric kettle? There isn't even a need to vary the temperature here. All it has to do is boil water. Nothing fancier than that.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">At the bottom of the price range, checking in at a mere £12.95 is a cordless white jug kettle made by Elgento (yet another make I have never heard of). It boils water. It switches off. That's it. And at the other end of the Amazon price spectrum is a cordless jug kettle from an unspecified manufacturer, weighing in at a staggering £318.75. It too boils water and switches off. And if you've recovered from that surprise, believe me when I say that one of the reviews on Amazon even went so far as to say that this was a "great value for money product". If it was made of platinum, perhaps.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">I have long held the view that life has a habit of equalising happiness and sadness, pleasure and pain, joy and despair. And for everything this hateful condition has taken away from me, it has given me recompense in that most valuable currency of all -- friendship.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">I have made friends that I know will stay with me for the rest of my life. Who are they? They come from far and wide -- from Berwick, Stockholm, Hexham, Australia, Texas, Vancouver, Norfolk, Tennessee, Arizona, New England, Pennsylvania, Manchester, North London, Sri Lanka, Hungary, Gravesend, Sarratt, Pewsey, Malaysia and beyond. They are the Viking, the Angel of the North, the Southern Belle, Lola, The Butcher, the Walker, the Battler and more.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">They are the network for my survival, just as I hope I may be part of theirs. They brighten my day and sing me to sleep at night. We are the children of the night and daytime sprites. We tell each other the truths we need to hear and the lies we hope to hear. We watch each other's backs and walk in each others footsteps. We build sand castles on that Parkinson's beach and watch as, one by one, the sea takes them from us. We dry each others' tears and mop each other's brows. We chase away each others' fears and share each other's joy. We bandage each other's wounds. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">We are a family. We bicker, we squabble, we hug, we treasure. Some think, some act, some talk, some listen. We all share. And we all dream.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">We dream of the day when we'll be delivered from this pestilence. The day when our sandcastles are not lost to the tide. The day when we will stand on that beach, and hold hands, our eyes screwed tight against the sunset and feel the warmth of the sun on our faces. That day when we will wash our hands clean of every word we wrote, every trial we endured, every step we took to bring us to this place. The day when we are called home.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">People with Parkinson's are lucky. We have two families. We are blessed.</span></span><br />Jon Stamfordhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10784772414018652597noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-51328202817814372302014-02-18T18:08:00.002+00:002014-02-18T18:08:54.076+00:00That sinking feeling<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;">For a long time it was alien abduction that exercised my half-waking hours. One minute I would be queueing in the '10 items or less' aisle with this week's Exchange and Mart and a bag of fun size Mars bars. I blink and suddenly I'm surrounded by funny little blue people with their brains on the outside talking to me, all squiggeldy bloop, while attaching jump leads to my nipples and prodding pipe cleaners into parts untouched by daylight. Typically this is where I wake up. Or wet myself.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">And in any case, it should be "10 items or fewer". That's basic stuff. Even Martians know that.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Recently the focus of my daymares has shifted. And whilst I don't wish to downplay the alien menace, my current worry is sinkholes. You know the kind of thing -- huge, house size holes in the Earth's crust that appear spontaneously and swallow your car, caravan or dinghy. Or worse still, your house. You may be sat on the toilet with the Sunday Times crossword when suddenly half your house detaches itself and tumbles towards the Earth's core leaving you waving to the neighbours across the abyss and wondering if it took the refrigerator. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Now I know that this is statistically less likely than being struck by lightning or being gored by wild boar, but that's not the point. It's rather like being told on a flight that only one plane in every hundred thousand crashes. Frankly I don't care about the other 99,999 planes. I only care about this one. And if there have already been 99,999 flights without incident, obviously a crash is overdue. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Again, my head knows that statistics don't work like that. But it still didn't stop me thinking about alien abductions and giving funny looking kids with big heads and blue T-shirts a wide berth.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Wikipedia, that source of unquestionable online authority, tells us that common factors in many sinkholes are the presence of underground aquifers combined with persistent torrential rainfall. Certainly that was the case in the 2010 Guatamala City sinkhole, 20 m wide and 100 m deep, which swallowed a three story office block. And if you have never seen a picture of a sinkhole, look that one up on Wikipedia.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">All this would be of little more than academic interest to me, were it not for two niggling facts. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Firstly, we live in a spa town and, without detailing my precise address, suffice it to say that the name of our street has a decidedly aquatic ring to it -- River Road, Aqua Avenue, Tsunami Street, Monsoon Mews. That sort of thing. I also know for a fact that a freshwater spring emerges from the ground less than 100 yards from our front door. Underground aquifers -- tick.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">All we need now is persistent torrential rainfall.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Oh, well I guess we can tick that box as well, as we face the wettest December, January and February on record. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Suddenly, we are, in a very real sense, potentially staring into the abyss. To be honest, I was a lot happier worrying about the little blue guys and their electrodes than the possibility that our ground floor might become Ground Zero. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">And to think that I was going to recarpet this year. </span><br />
</span><br />Jon Stamfordhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10784772414018652597noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-20029106671269217912014-02-14T11:47:00.000+00:002014-02-14T12:47:37.364+00:00A Soho Club<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-size: small;">I want to tell you about a little place I've discovered in Soho. It's not widely known and I suppose you could say it's a kind of gentlemen's club. Located about halfway along Old Compton Street is a door, set slightly back from the street. There's no sign on the outside to tell you. You just have to know. This discreet door, next to an off-licence, opens onto a steep, narrow staircase up to a first-floor room. I was met there on Tuesday by a slim girl with blue hair called Zoe who, over the course of a couple of hours, transported me and my friend Nigel to some amazing places. It was an education in every sense and worth every penny. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">I'm talking of course about the Soho Whisky Club and one of their tutored whisky tastings -- why, what were you thinking?</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">The tickets for this were a birthday present from my daughters. A deal they had found online. And it specified that I should bring a friend. Nigel and I have always enjoyed a dram or two, setting the world to rights and so on. And I know of few other friends locally who have embraced the whisky journey as much. So naturally, he had to come on my Soho trip. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">And it has to be said that this was a whisky tasting with a difference. Over the course of the evening, we learnt how to marry perceptions and expectations in a whisky, how the senses of sight, smell and taste need to used in sequence in order to get the most from each drink. The evening was orchestrated to take us from the low lands, with their smooth understated simplicity through to the peated sea monsters of Islay and their smoky, salty, craggy beauty. From lowland Auchentoshan and what, for me, was too meagre a flavour, we rolled north to Blair Athol, as typical a Highland malt as there is. Not outstanding in any particular dimension but representative of the genre. From the Highlands to the islands and specifically to Orkney and Scotland's most northerly distillery. And despite this bleak terroir, the distillery produces one of the most perfectly balanced of all whiskies -- soft, lingering, slightly sweet and honeyed, with the peat held in dignified proportion. A lady's whisky I have often thought and certainly one that Claire enjoys too. From Orkney, we stepped back on to the mainland, lurching our way down the east coast to Clynelish in Brora. A clean dry whisky, a little more peaty, but elegant and slightly nutty. Of course no tour of the whisky landscape would be complete without a visit to Islay and its smoky beauties. And this for me is what whisky is all about. Even the names -- Bowmore, Bunnahabhain, Bruichladdich, Ardbeg and Laphroaig -- are Celtic poetry. And on that Tuesday, our journey ended at my own favourite, Lagavulin. From its fortress on the coast, the distillery produces a whisky that bowls you over with flavour. Powerful, muscular, peaty, salty and yet somehow also fruity and perfumed. This is Renaissance Whisky.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Our guide on this tour was as improbable an expert as you can imagine. I think we were all expecting perhaps a portly, middle-aged man of ruddy complexion in a Harris tweed jacket as our guide. Nothing prepared us for the effervescent brilliance of Zoe Toolan, pierced nose and blue hair topping a catwalk model's physique. And Zoe, self-styled whisky missionary, clearly delights in turning the conventional on its head. A spirited artist, she shook all our preconceptions about whisky, its character and the people who drink it. Her no-nonsense approach and playfully iconoclastic delivery helped make our whisky journey so enjoyable. She is a rising star. And I have no doubt we will hear more of her in the future. Personally I think she should have her own TV series!</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">It got me thinking as well. If I could sum up the Scotch Whisky industry in five drinks, which would they be? Any choice is of course always going to be personal but here goes.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Springbank -- one of only a couple of Campbeltown malts left. Perfectly balanced, clean and elegant.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Macallan -- simply can't be ignored. Their sherry cask philosophy led away long before it was fashionable.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Caol Ila -- stops short of the awesome smoky brutality of Ardbeg. But not that far short.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Glenfarclas -- the archetypal Speyside malt. Full flavoured, open and welcoming</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Talisker -- I still regret the passing of the rough, edgy eight-year-old bottling but, even in its Sunday best at 10 years, it is still the one whisky I would take to a desert island. A whisky of happy memories and wonderful friends.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">A wonderful evening in Soho. I suspect Nigel and I will be back for more.</span><br />
</span>Jon Stamfordhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10784772414018652597noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-38154404864211096042014-01-22T01:22:00.001+00:002014-01-22T01:22:50.268+00:00Glasses<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">It comes to something when I can say, without a hint of irony, that I lose track of the number of times I've lost track of my glasses. They seem to be perpetually in a place I'm not. If I am in the house, my glasses are in the car. If I am in the car, the glasses are in the shed. Or on the mantelpiece, down the side of the sofa, underneath a pile of newspapers, or beside my toothbrush in the bathroom. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">Bizarrely, my glasses seem not only to be in places I'm not but, sometimes, in places I have no recollection of ever being. Or in places where I can think of no rational explanation as to how they came to be there. I can just about explain how they could have found their way into the refrigerator - until recently when they changed the formulation, I kept my Neupro patches in the salad crisper. In an improbable act of tidiness, I could just possibly have put my glasses there while putting the Neupro box back.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">You're right. I don't really believe that explanation myself.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">And how they found their way into the big 25 kg bag of dog food I shall never know, although alien abduction increasingly looks favourite. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">It also seems to be a ground rule that the implausibility of locating the glasses is directly proportional to the necessity of finding them. If you don't need the glasses until next Tuesday, there they are on the cocktail cabinet. If you have five minutes before leaving to take the mother-in-law to Wednesday afternoon bridge, you can be sure that the glasses have inadvertently been left in a pair of khaki shorts you lent to the next-door neighbour to use while trekking in Nepal. You get my drift.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">There has to be a better way. Some way of ensuring I don't find myself optically challenged. Alex's suggestion of attaching them to my head with a staple gun, whilst certainly a sort of solution, is probably not one I shall be taking up any time soon. Moreover, it suggests he spends too much time playing video games. We really should hide the Xbox.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">So when Alice told me the other day that contact lenses worked for her, my reaction was pretty much "Bingo!" Actually my first reaction was "I didn't know you wore contacts". </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">"Dad, until last weekend, you didn't realise I wore glasses" she said "for the last four years".</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">"I've been busy" was the best I could muster in reply.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">"And you wonder why I have middle child syndrome" she said, eyebrow arched.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">Note to self -- must try harder. No, really must try harder.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">I picked up the phone. It was a toss up between the opticians or the Samaritans.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">"Hello" I said "can I make an appointment to be fitted for contact lenses please".</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">[To be continued]</span></span><br />Jon Stamfordhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10784772414018652597noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-50482115083052038762014-01-11T12:25:00.000+00:002014-01-11T19:15:45.380+00:00Trivial Pursuit<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">I was rummaging around in the loft a couple of days ago, picking my way among last year's Christmas decorations and some kind of construction with pulleys that bore the hallmark of a long neglected science project when I stumbled across the characteristic blue box of Trivial Pursuit. Bearing in mind that I had last played this game before I was married, I was amazed that it had been retained through various bedsitter, flat and house moves. I was even more amazed that it appeared to be intact -- the individual carousels and their slices of cake as we used to think of them were still present. I think we bought it around 1986. Certainly it was more than a quarter of a century ago.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">And, if good sense had prevailed, that should have been that. Rather like Howard Carter's expedition to the Valley of the Kings, I should have kept my discovery to myself, reburied it under the newspapers of that year and let it lie. Instead, I thought it would be interesting for the children to see this piece of board game history and brought it down from the loft for their inspection. This simple act, like Carter's excavation of the tomb of Tutankhamen, somehow unleashed The Curse of the Board Game.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">I should probably explain.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">We, that is the Stamford family, do not have a great record with board games. Whereas for many other -- and I shall call them normal -- families, a game of cards, Ludo, Buckaroo or Monopoly provides an opportunity for some family bonding and genteel banter, none of this applies in the Stamford household. Where normal families play together like the Waltons, we are closer to the Borgias. Even my mother, normally the most gentle of all souls, became a she-devil when thwarted at her favourite boardgames. I learned very early on that the price of beating her at Scrabble generally resulted in a withdrawal of all catering services in the household for the rest of the day. It was not unknown for my mother to upend the board or simply sweep the letters onto the floor when facing a heavy defeat. She was, by any standards, a sore loser.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">This ferocious competitive streak is clearly carried down the female line. My sister Venetia was much the same with card games. Blessed with glacially cool judgement and a penchant for the theatrical, she was a fearsome opponent and played canasta with the kind of ferocity one might associate with the linebacker corps of the New York Giants. "Relentless" is not normally the kind of adjective associated with parlour card games but somehow strangely appropriate in my sister's case -- watching her put my aunt Kath out of her misery was like witnessing Arctic trawlermen clubbing baby harp seals.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">All Stamfords are competitive, I'm sorry to say. But here, as in so many areas of endeavour, the female of the species is more deadly than the male. In my experience, there is nothing more likely to disrupt the fragile spirit of Christmas goodwill than a family board game. Monopoly brings out the worst in every member of my family. Each has their own inflexible opinion of how the game should be played, the best strategy, the value of custodial sentences when the board is a minefield of hotels, and the constant intransigence over making deals. In our house however there is only one certainty -- Alice wins. Consistently. Somehow she has a knack of quietly accumulating the kind of war chest that would shame a Third World dictator. Inevitably, we don't play monopoly much these days. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">It was only a few minutes after I had put the Trivial Pursuit board on the dining table before the family investigated. Rather like hyenas circling a fresh kill, they examined the board, questions and 'cheeses'. I suggested a game. Once we had weathered the usual blood feud over choice of colours, which in itself should have been a clear warning sign, we tentatively got underway. Gradually the rules came back to me, as did many of the questions and answers. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">It soon became clear that I had something of an unfair advantage. Although history doesn't change -- that's why it's history -- questions on entertainment tend to be ephemeral. Not surprisingly, none of the children knew who had a cat named Bobby in Coronation Street (Minnie Caldwell), the year in which Diana Dors died (1984), nor which 1957 film starred Elvis Presley (Jailhouse Rock). Some of the geography questions, especially those pertaining to African countries also no longer apply. The same goes for science and nature. Pluto is no longer the outermost planet. Nor indeed a planet at all. And it is a fairly pitiful indictment of 1980s culture that "how many pieces of Kentucky fried chicken are in a bucket?" should be considered a legitimate question in the sports and leisure section. Still, the other sections were at least impervious to time's arrow. The war that ended with the signing of the 1856 Treaty of Paris is, readers will be reassured to read, still the Crimean War. Similarly, it is Shrove Tuesday that falls 39 days before Good Friday. No change there.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">Of course all boardgames lend themselves to teasing and banter. Especially in our house. But it takes a special sort of game to fuel sledging on a scale worthy of the Australian slip cordon, the kind of mental disintegration advocated by Steve Waugh and his teammates. And goodness knows there was plenty of material to work with. I honestly don't know what they teach them in schools these days. There seems to be no general knowledge. If it's not part of the national curriculum, nobody pays attention to it. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">So to set the record straight for those of my brood who got the answers wrong, the manufacturer of the Eclat sports car was Lotus. Lotus is a type of flower not a large swarming insect. That's a locust, Alice. Secondly, the lobster still only has ten legs. Yes Alex, the board game is 20 years old but no, evolution does not operate that quickly. The force that bears the motto "Per Ardua Ad Astra" is not gravity, Catherine. The Royal Air Force was the answer they were looking for.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">While we're on the subject, Albert DeSalvo was the Boston Strangler, not one of the three tenors. Sydney's famous surfing beach is Bondi (not Bondage) and the US state famous for orange juice is Florida, not Alaska. Same number of syllables but no other connection. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">Eventually, despite diversions, we had a winner. And I was shocked to see that even Catherine, the least competitive of my brood, was not above sending her boyfriend a video clip of her winning the game, accompanied by what I can only describe as a victory dance not dissimilar to the Haka. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">The Trivial Pursuit is back in the loft. I'm guessing it will be another 20 years...</span></span>Jon Stamfordhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10784772414018652597noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-47416124271826985542013-12-31T10:13:00.002+00:002013-12-31T10:13:59.434+00:00Is this punding? You decide<span style="font-size: x-small;"><div dir="LTR">
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">While I appreciate that starting any blog with the word Wagner is usually enough to have readers abandoning the page like lemmings, you might want to stick around for this one. Trust me, it will make sense -- well, inasmuch as anything I write makes sense.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Because dear reader, and you may already be in the singular rather than plural, I want to tell you how the music of Richard Wagner has alerted me to possible new developments in my Parkinson's. And no, despite the man's overwhelming sense of self-importance, not even he claimed to be a neurologist. Pretty much everything besides -- musician, composer, poet, political activist, author and general philanderer. But not a neurologist.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Let me backtrack a little.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">As many of you who know me would be the first to acknowledge, I like music. And my tastes are catholic, albeit with a few gaping holes. I can't imagine the day dawning when I will buy my first Eminem record for instance. And Lady Gaga should probably not rely on me to bolster sales in the post-Christmas lull. But other than a few egregious examples, I like most music. And some music, I absolutely adore. Many of you will already be hearing the possible direction this is taking. But bear with me.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Anyway, to cut a long story short (and when have I ever), I discovered that, over some 30 years of purchasing, I have amassed just over 3500 classical CDs. Leaving aside the fact that this amounts to a cash outlay of somewhere in the region of a year's salary, it also represents a substantial listening time commitment. People often ask me how I find time to listen to them all. Well, the answer is of course that I don't. Assuming a conservative estimate of 60 minutes per disc, and an average listening day of say 10 hours (just to make the mathematics easy), I could start at Albinoni at 9 AM on January 1, 2014 and only reach the closing bars of Zemlinsky's Sinfonietta at around supper time on 14 December. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">I would have put Beethoven behind me in late February, before hearing Delius's 'First Cuckoo in Spring' appropriately enough in mid-March. April would be spent wading through the deep waters of Elgar oratorios before summer marched in around June with Mahler's hymn to nature, the mighty 3rd Symphony. By August, we are humming 'O Mio Babbino Caro' and ''Nessun Dorma' with a glass of Barolo in hand, before Sibelius's Tapiola accompanies a distinct nip in the September air. As we rummage for jumpers in October, Stravinsky's Rite of Spring seems a world away. Slippers by the fireside in November can only mean the whoop of Valkyries, before Walton invites us to Belshazar's Feast, just as the office Christmas bashes gets underway.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">I f I took an hour off for lunch each day, we would be into 2015 before I had popped the cork on Strauss's Champagne Gallop. And if I allowed myself music free weekends, we would be surrounded by Sugar Plum fairies until well after Easter 2015. And if the restriction was a mere one hour per day (and I have to concede that there are some people out there who listen to as little Wagner as this), we would have changed presidents not once but twice during the course of my classical record collection. In fact it's not beyond the realms of possibility that, by the time Wagner reaches the end of the world in Gotterdammerung, the world could actually have ended. Now that would be a production worth seeing ...</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Of course these calculations make the assumption that I do not buy a single CD between now and the election of Obama's successor's successor (or the end of the world, whichever comes first). And let's face it, that's not going to happen.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">For many of you, the prospect of listening to my record collection for the next decade would be about as popular as eight years of Republican government. And probably about as productive.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Okay, enough of these diversions. Let's get down to the serious business of what I have to say. Amusing though the above may be (I hope it made you laugh), the very detail of it reveals the number of important aspects of Parkinson's. How a record collection can be indicative of symptom progression is something that many of you may find puzzling. But in amongst all those fripperies, are some key facts.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">1) I have an abnormally large number of CDs.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">3) I have arranged them in alphabetical order</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">From a neurological stance, these activities are evidently pointless. It really doesn't matter how many CDs I have nor the length of time the music would play for. Not one of these mental exercises has the slightest value. These are essentially repetitive and unproductive behaviour elements. And there is a word for this behaviour.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">It's called punding.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Punding is essentially the unproductive repetition of small behavioural components, to the exclusion of other behaviours. Typical examples might be the collection and sorting of objects according to size or shape for instance. Taking things to pieces and reassembling them might be another example, particularly amongst men. Women will often repeatedly sort through their handbags or tidy continuously. Many people with Parkinson's who exhibit punding find it comforting, rewarding or in some way enjoyable and are frustrated when diverted from the activity. Most who pund retain insight into their behaviour.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">On the face of it, and in the absence of any other information, you would reasonably suppose that I was showing signs of punding. Collecting and sorting are hallmarks of punding. So, were I to present myself to an uninitiated neurologist -- a trainee for instance -- they might draw that conclusion and treat accordingly.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">We know that this is a dopaminergic behaviour as it was first observed in amphetamine and cocaine users, both of which drugs release dopamine in the brain. A recent paper (Fasano & Petrovic, 2010) appeared to implicate the dopamine agonists in general and those with actions on D1 and D2 receptors particularly.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">But am I actually punding? If the hypothetical neurologist trainee knew me a little better, might they draw a different conclusion? </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">The key thing here is the premorbid personality. What was the patient (me) like before I had Parkinson's? Is this apparent punding a new behaviour, entirely out of character, or is it merely an exaggeration of the behaviour I exhibited before Parkinson's? Is it even exaggeration at all?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">So, to help answer this question, let me take you back more than 40 years. A 10-year-old Jon has a bedroom at the end of a long corridor. Sharing his bedroom are 4 floor-to-ceiling industrial shelf units. And covering (literally covering) every inch of space are model aeroplanes of every shape or form. More than 200 as I recall, and here memory fails me. And these planes were divided up thematically. Two shelves were occupied by First World War aircraft -- Sopwiths, Fokkers, Spads and so on, surrounding the pride of my collection, a Handley Page bomber. And so it went on, each shelf organised according to nationality or time period (e.g. Second World War American bombers). On those four shelves was an entire Airfix airforce. Were these planes real, they would have amounted to a significant strategic deterrent.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">So my point is this. The 10-year-old Jon did not have Parkinson's and did not take any medication beyond the usual aspirin or paracetamol. Juvenile Jon was nonetheless of a rather obsessive persuasion and although I did not wash my hands hundreds of times a day, I always avoided the cracks in pavements.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">I would submit, your honour, that what at first sight looks like an open and shut case of punding is rather more complex. I don't rule punding out but I do believe that it is important to take into account the patient's own personality, however quirky!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Finally, before I subject my case to you for scrutiny, I should just like to respond to each of the points I enumerated above:</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">1) 3500 CDs is not unique. David Mellor has more.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">2) It’s only a ballpark figure, accurate to ~50 or so.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">3) Well, since they occupy 8 metres of shelf space, how would you find any CD otherwise</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">4) Actually only once - for the amusement of readers of this blog.</span></div>
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</span></span><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Fasano A, Petrovic I (2010) Insights into pathophysiology of punding reveal possible treatment strategies. Mol Psychiatry. 15: 560-73.</span></span>Jon Stamfordhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10784772414018652597noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-52857153221464720522013-12-24T17:21:00.001+00:002013-12-24T17:21:49.721+00:00Come dine with me...<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">About a year ago I received a letter inviting me if I would like to participate in a program called "Come Dine with Me" on Channel 4 as I recall. There was a paragraph or two explaining the nature of the show -- basically five contestants she take it in turns to cook for the others. Then, at the end of it all, everyone votes to decide who cooked the best meal. The show is also punctuated by brief interviews with each contestant in which they say what they liked and disliked.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">"You should definitely do it Dad" she said "the contestants cook awful food and say bitchy and sarcastic things about each other. You'd be perfect".</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">I think she intended it as a kind of complement. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">But if I had ever entertained even the briefest flicker of interest in participating, Alice's rather overcandid appraisal of my suitability pretty much snuffed it out. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">I pretended to be hurt.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">After all, if the principal pre-requisite for the show is to be sarcastic and cook dreadful food, it's rather unsettling that, in Alice's eyes, I have both bases already covered. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">She's probably right about the corrosive tongue. Despite repeatedly being told, as a child, that it was neither big nor clever, I've always found sarcasm to be both. You only have to look at the number of nations without an equivalent of this rapier-sharp linguistic weapon to acknowledge its power. It is something peculiarly British. Our language, with nearly 3 times as many words as others, is particularly conducive to sarcasm.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">I'm probably also bang to rights on the food. Nobody who has ever experienced my lentil and bean sprout clafoutis would query my ability to create something inedible from normally promising ingredients, to somehow snatch culinary defeat from the jaws of gastronomic victory. My family lose track of the occasions where I have somehow managed to turn say eggs, milk and flour into a sort of chilled-omelette-sorbet-thing rather than the classic hot soufflé they were perhaps anticipating. My explanation about the spiritual value of walking the path less travelled is brushed aside as swiftly as the food itself.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">But even with my impeccable qualifications for the show, it quickly becomes clear that the participants are infinitely worse, taking the word 'scathing' to dizzying new heights. It transpires that, in addition to passing judgement on the food, the guests are expected to wander around their host''s dwelling, treating the viewing public to their thoughts on the contents of sock drawers, wardrobes and wine cellars. Every nook, cranny and crevice is poked, prodded and probed. All is laid bare -- whether you buy your clothes at Top Man or at Gieves and Hawkes, all is fair game to the perfidious vipers who participate in the show. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">By any standards, it's grim viewing. To be stuck in a room with one self opinionated narcissist is purgatory. Take five, all with volume control issues, and it's as near to hell as I can imagine. One minute the guests are oozing fulsome praise for the host and for his adventurous sprout terrine with a cabbage jus, only to then liken it, for the benefit of the cameras, it to a luminous green cowpat,</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">The whole notion of the show is, in any case, a ridiculous contrivance. If you put Tarquin Chinless-Wonder, Gazza and Betty Boop around the same table, it's a fair bet that conversation will be, at best, stilted. Betty will know as little about plover's eggs as Tarquin does about pink feather boas. But then of course, if they all got on like a house on fire, there would be no television programme.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">I remember Castaway a decade or so ago, ostensibly a social experiment on the concept of community, where a group of people were abandoned on the island of Tarantsay. As a social experiment it was a success. For the most part, the people got on reasonably well. As a piece of prime-time television however, it was pretty lame. Until the producers hit upon the idea that the islanders needed to relax and also to find more of their own food. Their solution to this two-pronged conundrum was to supply the islanders with alcohol and guns respectively. Suddenly the program had an edge. Although, for the most part, still resolved through a series of civil verbal exchanges, there was now the possibility, however remote, that differences of opinion might instead find themselves subject to an armed response.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Castaway at least had some kind of sociological or scientific pretensions. But a situation as contrived as Come Dine with Me does not even have that. It's is more unreality than reality TV. With regard to scientific merit, it is rather like stamping on woodlice to see if they can support the weight of a human being.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">But the show has served one useful purpose. I'm satisfied that no matter how sarcastic I become and no matter how badly I cook, I will never appear on the programme.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Well, maybe if there were guns...</span></span>Jon Stamfordhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10784772414018652597noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-9217930975131005482013-12-19T10:26:00.000+00:002013-12-19T10:26:05.678+00:00Cascais near LisbonA couple of weeks or so back I found myself in Cascais, 20 miles west of Lisbon, for a conference. I say 'I found myself' probably conveys the wrong impression. Rather like saying, after a stag night, that 'I found myself' naked in a roadside skip near Arbroath, handcuffed to a Puerto Rican stripagram girl and with the word Dolores tattooed across my chest. We've all been there.<br />
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No, this time I actually chose to be there. In Cascais not Arbroath. You knew that.<br />
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So why Cascais, a well-known and wealthy seaside resort, the Monte Carlo of Portugal indeed, adjacent to Estoril where the yachted aristocracy of Europe would meet for the Portuguese Grand Prix? Not, you might think, a particularly representational venue for an academic conference. And in that you would be right. Since the legislation on pharma-funded conferences tightened, these have been dour, grey affairs so unattractive that there would be no chance of mistaking them for any pharmaceutical jolly. No indeed. These conferences are calls of duty rather than freebies. Food is grey and uninteresting, served by staff of the same ilk. And should you ask for a second helping of anything, you are greeted like a latterday Oliver Twist. Believe me, short of conducting proceedings in a Turkish prison, it's hard to see how they could be less incentivised.<br />
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Dissatisfied even with these austerity measures, at least one drug company is rumoured to be terminating all paid relationships with physicians. That includes sponsorship for doctors to attend conferences and honoraria for work on advisory boards. Now call me an old cynic (and many do) but I don't see this working. Okay, there may be those amongst the company who feel that this amounts to a strong occupation of the moral high ground. They may even be right. In a utopian society, doctors might well work for free and give up their annual leave for the greater good, even spend the money set aside for the family holiday in order to attend a conference.<br />
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No, really.<br />
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Meanwhile, back in reality, I suspect the truth is rather more predictable. Given the choice between unpaid work for a drug company and a round of golf with friends, I think we know who is holding all the clubs. To believe in altruism on this scale you would need to have a strong faith in porcine aviation. The simple reality is that doctors will seek sponsorship from other sources. That means other drug companies. Rival drug companies. The moral high ground can be a pretty lonely place sometimes. <br />
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It reminds me of the old Soviet Cold War joke: <br />
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Q: what's the definition of a string quartet in Russia?<br />
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A: a symphony orchestra after a tour of the West.<br />
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Don't get me wrong -- I'm not advocating a return to the gravy train days of old where influential physicians were (allegedly) kept sweet with all sorts of nonsensical and inappropriate inducements. Stories of paid 'fact-finding' trips to the Bahamas, although probably apocryphal, helped create the perception of widespread abuses by an industry grown cynical. Austerity was seen as the only reasonable antidote. And predictably, as so often with regulatory measures, the pendulum swung dramatically. Conference venues, instead of being upmarket hotels were suddenly gulags.<br />
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But of course if the pharmaceutical industry is not covering the bar bill, none of the above restrictions apply. And without lavishing speakers with carriage clocks, laptops, iPads and other sundry electronics, it is still possible to make the conference experience more enjoyable. Cascais, where you can walk along the beach at dawn before the scientific sessions, is just such an experience. A place you want to return to and people you want to work with again.<br />
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Do I feel sullied by such comparative opulence? Do I feel corrupted by such generous hospitality? Do I believe that my opinions have been in some way bought? No, not in the least. It's just nice to have a conference in an environment that is conducive to productive work and not an attempt to faithfully recreate the film set of Midnight Express.<br />
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Obrigado Cascais. Obrigado.Jon Stamfordhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10784772414018652597noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-14729571892123117582013-11-25T15:00:00.000+00:002013-11-25T15:00:25.383+00:00Biscuits<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-size: small;">I've been thinking a lot about biscuits recently. Partly this is the result of some idle meanderings for another book I'm writing about my childhood growing up in Yorkshire. But when you think about it, the link is obvious. It's the Garibaldi. You remember -- dead fly biscuits? I can still remember my little sister's look of lip curling disgust as I invited her to entertain the possibility that I might just have crushed a real fly on the biscuit she had just eaten with her milk. She stood up suddenly and, fearing retribution of the kind only a sister can mete out, I made a dash for the door. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Even my nonchalant whistling as I passed my mother on the landing could not mask the sound of retching from the bathroom.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">"What's wrong with your sister?"</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">"Something she ate?" I ventured.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">It can have been no more than two minutes before I heard my mother bellow "Jonathan" down the stairs.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">That was the problem with the Garibaldi -- not a trustworthy biscuit. Well, in the wrong hands anyway.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">But I digress. My childhood is the subject of another book and now, nearly 50 years on, I wouldn't dream of adding flies to biscuits. I have matured, moved on if you will, in my biscuit appreciation. No longer do I see the biscuit as little more than a vehicle for sibling discomfort. In any case, my sister has never eaten a Garibaldi since. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Nowadays I wouldn't even contemplate such a biscuit -- and why should I, faced with the cornucopia of different biscuit experiences available to me now. Having what doctors euphemistically call a life limiting condition, I don't plan to spend it looking balefully at rich tea fingers or the humble digestive. Even my mother called them 'suggestive' biscuits to make them seem more interesting. She never tired of the joke, chuckling anew each time. Her ability to find laughter in such barren ground only confirms once more to me that there was nothing on television throughout the entire 1960s. Entire sitcoms were based on little more.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Suggestive or otherwise, they're not a biscuit that really comes above the radar. Not even when chocolate coated. And that's saying something since it has been my long considered opinion that pieces of linoleum tile, if dipped in chocolate, would make a perfectly serviceable between-meals snack. But even chocolate, the great Redeemer, cannot breathe life into the digestive biscuit. A biscuit for the mentally congestive.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">The rich tea finger is little better. Even the name suggests stolid worthiness. It's a biscuit that makes you think of high tea in the chilly front parlour with nothing but Aunt Primrose, the living prune, and the slow tick of the mantelpiece clock for company. A biscuit that spoke of a wartime of deprivation and grim self-denial. An apology for a biscuit. Even now I can remember Aunt Primrose's look of arched irritation when I asked her if she had any other biscuits.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">No, these were good enough for her father and his father before him. I held myself back from enquiring whether these were the actual biscuits so popular with her ancestors. In any case, it was clear enough that, to want any other biscuits was tantamount to putting on airs and graces, a character flaw comparable in 1960s Yorkshire to being a homosexual. Or a Tory. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">I made some feeble excuse and it was never mentioned again. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">When the glorious Revolution comes and I shall have chance to settle old scores, the rich tea biscuit will be the first to face the firing squad. Quickly followed by the suggestive digestive.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">But the Yorkshire of my childhood was a drab monochrome place and the monochrome Aunt Primrose was no more than an embodiment of that. It is against that grey, colliery-scarred landscape that I remember my first jammy dodger. And if ever there was a biscuit to excite a 10-year-old boy, this was it. Firstly, it was red. Or at least the middle was. Unnaturally red. The kind of red achieved as a by product of the petrochemical industry rather than lush fields of ripening summer strawberries. It was brash and bold. A biscuit that spoke of youth and exuberance. If the rich tea biscuit was an Austin 1100, the jammy dodger was a Cadillac Eldorado. Here was a biscuit that spoke of horizons beyond Cantley or Armthorpe. Here was a biscuit that whispered Worksop or Rotherham.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">It was the kind of biscuit you would even kiss your sister for.</span></span><span style="font-size: x-small;"></span><br />Jon Stamfordhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10784772414018652597noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-2648313989797477902013-11-11T02:16:00.000+00:002013-11-11T09:11:29.971+00:00Battered shark<span style="font-size: x-small;"> <span style="font-size: small;">You sometimes get the feeling that everything has a price. Every little joy in life has to be balanced with a comparable disappointment. And vice versa. You acquire Parkinson's for instance but are compensated for this by the amazing new friends you meet. You pass your GCSEs with stellar grades only to get home and find the dog has died. You miss your train home only to meet a childhood sweetheart in the taxi queue. That sort of thing. Checks and balances. It's as though the Almighty won't let you be miserable without some compensation. And nor will He want you to get too uppity.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"> Take today as a case in point. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"> Evidently Anton has offended the motoring gods. His first real outing in The Shark, to see Manchester United play Arsenal at Old Trafford has been, at best, only a qualified success but nonetheless fits this pattern. The central part of the day, the game itself, has pretty much gone as well as could have been hoped from a Mancunian perspective. One nil to United with the goal scored by Arsenal old boy Robin Van Persie. The words 'salt' and 'wounds' spring to mind.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"> Taken in isolation, the game and the result would normally equate to a fine day trip bracketed by a 200 mile snarl in The Shark. One can almost hear Lou Reed's 'Perfect Day' playing in the soundtrack of life. Unfortunately, as already explained, that's not how life works. A famous victory calls for redress of similar magnitude. You can almost imagine God reaching for his pocket calculator. "Let me see ..... good seats at Old Trafford .... Man United victory .... goal by Robin Van Persie .... perfect weather". He sucks the air through his teeth "Oooh, that's going to cost".</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"> Inevitably therefore, according to my hypothesis, the hours running up to the game are rather less Lou Reed and rather more Elvis Costello. Specifically his 1979 single 'Accidents Will Happen' as The Shark finds itself part of a pile up, rear-ended on the motorway. Anton and his son Tom are thankfully fine but The Shark is not. Although the least damaged of the cars involved, the back of the car is still going to take more than a smear of T cut and a few minutes polishing. The boot has visible dents and one of the exhausts is bent back on itself. It's lucky the fuel tank was not punctured. A hat-trick by Rooney and who knows!</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"> To me, a car crash would be sufficient cue to forget the match, head home and curl up in a bundle on the sofa with comfort food and a glass of whisky. And if Anton ever at any stage entertains this notion, it is swiftly scotched by Tom, whose determination to see the match is undiminished by something so trivial as a mere motorway car crash. After all, what's a little whiplash between friends? Anton correctly demonstrates that, unlike his football crazed son, he is still in possession of his faculties and insists on at least subjecting the car to the scrutiny of the AA. Tom meanwhile, frothing at the mouth with every minute lost, spends his time productively updating Facebook with the latest roadside bulletin.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"> I stumble upon this situation inadvertently. As my wife shops in Marks & Spencer, I check my Facebook, in half expectation of a briefing document from a US colleague. No sign of any spreadsheet but plenty of pictures of mangled metal and car parts on the hard shoulder. Only when I see the number plate do I realise that this is Anton's car. Despite initial panic, I soon realise that he and Tom must be unhurt. Even Tom would presumably not update Facebook if his father was in mortal danger. Well, maybe discreetly. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"> Nevertheless, as the principal proponent of the successful 'Jag for Anton' campaign, I feel it my duty to try and instil a little common sense in the dynamic due. I leave largely unheeded messages on Facebook until the phone rings. It is Freia, maker of the best biscotti north of Turin and in all respects a great friend apart from her abject failure to understand the male need for Jaguar ownership. She is surprisingly calm. Apparently the AA man has bent the exhaust back into approximately the right shape with a length of metal piping before giving The Shark a clean bill of health -- well, clean enough to get to Manchester and back.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"> They arrive in time for the game. Anton finds a parking place a short walk from the ground and off they troop. Two hours later, the Reds have beaten the yellow peril (Arsenal are playing in their away strip) and all seems much better with the world. But inevitably the triumph of red over yellow calls for a price.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"> As they approach the car, Anton notices something yellow in a plastic envelope on the windscreen. He peels it off. In the distance he can hear the maniacal laugh of a traffic warden.</span></span>Jon Stamfordhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10784772414018652597noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-86136456694627085212013-11-05T00:06:00.001+00:002013-11-05T00:06:35.004+00:00The gene genie (Part 2)<br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Where were we? Oh yes, I remember. I was about to get my
genetic results. <o:p></o:p></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="font-size: small;">Of course the first thing you notice when you log on is --
well -- very little. There are no glaring warnings, no headlines, nothing on
the screen to suggest that they know you're there. Not that I was expecting a
reception committee -- "Ah Mr Bond, we've been expecting you". <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="font-size: small;">My first piece of genetic information, to whet the appetite
so to speak, is a polite suggestion that I should avoid eating raw oysters -- I
am particularly susceptible to the most common form of Norovirus -- you know,
the diarrhoea and vomiting bug. Nice.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="font-size: small;">But it's not long before you get into the swing of things.
There is a lot of genetic information here, mostly of little importance. A sort
of genetic amuse bouche before the opening salvoes -- a list of 52 conditions
of known genetic inheritance. And for me, of no genetic interests either since
my genome is unpolluted by these little malefactors. Of 52 conditions with
known inheritance, I have none. No phenylketonuria. No Gaucher's disease, no
Pendred syndrome nor familial Mediterranean fever. And those are just the ones
I can pronounce. I'm also in the clear on Medium-Chain Acyl-CoA Dehydrogenase
(MCAD) Deficiency and certainly out of the woods on Rhizomelic Chondrodysplasia
Punctata Type 1 (RCDP1) . Just imagine my relief.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="font-size: small;">In fact I don't have around 45 conditions that, until now, I
didn't know it was possible to have. And how can you be afraid of something
that you didn't even know existed. Unless you're Donald Rumsfeld.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="font-size: small;">But surely I hear you ask them must be more for your $99
than an all clear on the unpronounceable diseases and gentle advice to avoid
oysters which, bearing in mind that they have the taste and consistency of
snot, will not take much further inducement.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="font-size: small;">Not surprisingly then there is a whole lot more information
available from my loquacious little genome. In the debit column, I have a
slightly elevated risk of psoriasis. Okay, mildly irritating perhaps but, when
I discover that it's counterbalanced by a dramatic reduction in my likelihood
of contracting Alzheimer's, it's a trade I'm more than prepared to make. And I
couldn't help but raise a wry smile on discovering that my genetic
predisposition to Parkinson's is actually some 20% lower than the general
population based on my expression of different alleles in that smorgasbord of
genes associated with Parkinson's.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="font-size: small;">All of this genetic shenanigans proves that I have a common
or garden genome. In fact you would struggle to find a less interesting genome
than mine. Even geneticists, trying to find excitement where there is none,
must have absentmindedly picked their fingernails when challenged to say
something interesting about my genetic composition. Ordinary. Very ordinary.
Jon 'Ordinary' Stamford.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="font-size: small;">It's rather like reading my school report -- 'Try as he may,
Stamford has a very ordinary genome. It is unlikely his genome will amount to
anything. He has performed adequately in all subjects, but without distinction
in any. As goalie, he kept a clean sheet in the Nature v Nurture house cup. His
performance as third bystander in the school play went largely unnoticed. The
careers master suggests he tries his hand at something mundane and
unimaginative. Accountancy perhaps. Or politics. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="font-size: small;">Just as I'm about to write my genome off, I stumble across
the 'Traits' section of the website. Here, stashed away like some cabinet of
Victorian curiosities, are all the things that won't harm you or help you. Or
do anything really. They're just part of you.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="font-size: small;">And here I discover that I am unlikely to get male pattern
baldness. True enough -- I have a full head of hair. Grey hair certainly but at
my age you just happy to be able to hold your head high when buying a comb in
Boots. No need for any awkward moments there. Moreover, my hair is apparently
slightly curlier than average. Right again. Only slightly mind you -- we're not
talking Afro here. And my eyes are likely to be blue. In actual fact they are a
sort of pale blue -- more a steel grey I think. They match my hair. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="font-size: small;">And when it comes to muscle performance the report tells me
I'll be an unlikely sprinter due to a lack of fast twitch muscle fibres. Going
back to school again, it should be said that my track and field performances
were legendary. I achieved a 100m time that was considered slow for the 200m
and remain to this day the only person at the school ever to injure himself on
his own javelin. They wouldn't even let me pick up the discus.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="font-size: small;">It also transpires that I have two different alleles that
make you brighter if you are breastfed (which I was). According to the genome's
prediction, and I'm happy to go along with it, I should be around 12 IQ points
higher than average. Actually (trying hard not to look smug) I think that
figure is nearer 30 or so. And I'm a dunce compared to the kids.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="font-size: small;">But all of this genetic information pales into
insignificance when stacked against what, for me, is unequivocally the most
memorable finding. I possess the CC form of the ABCC11 gene which means that I
am condemned to a life of wet ear wax. Even 23andme's scholarship comes up
short on this one and they have to confess, rather limply, that they know of no
evolutionary advantage to having wet rather than dry earwax.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Jon Stamfordhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10784772414018652597noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-88148136629183969062013-10-25T19:43:00.001+01:002013-10-25T19:43:38.367+01:00Football at Wembley (but not as we know it)The last time I was at Wembley for a sporting event was on 16 November 1977 when I watched England beat Italy 2-0 in a World Cup qualifier with goals from Kevin Keegan in the 11th minute setting us on our way before Trevor Brooking finished the job in the 80th minute. The team that day would moisten the eye of the most jaded football fans -- Ray Clemence, Phil Neal, Trevor Cherry, Ray Wilkins, Dave Watson, Emlyn Hughes, Kevin Keegan, Steve Coppell, Dave Latchford, Trevor Brooking and Peter Barnes.<br />
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This Sunday I shall be at Wembley again, to watch the San Francisco 49ers take on the Jacksonville Jaguars. And despite Jacksonville's feline sobriquet, I shall not be putting my faith in that particular type of Jaguar. I am a diehard 49ers fan, having watched them every Sunday night since the days of Dwight Clark, Roger Craig, Joe Montana, Jerry Rice, Steve Young through to the current stars -- Frank Gore, Colin Kaepernick, Vernon Davis, Aldon Smith, Donte Whitner and Patrick Willis.<br />
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Of course, beyond the name and location, there's not much to link the Wembley I visited in 1977 with Sunday's stadium. Gone are the twin towers of the old stadium, long since replaced by a sort of arch or rainbow or what have you. It's progress I suppose.<br />
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But even more startling is the imposed code of behaviour. In 1977, the stewards would relieve you of any bottles, largely for your own safety, but were fairly relaxed about beer cans. In any case, pelting the travelling Italian fans with empty cans of Skol in the half-time interval was only to be expected. In fact it was more or less mandatory. Many were thrown back.<br />
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I certainly don't recall receiving any more detailed information on restrictions than that. Of course times have changed and now, in these days of comedy litigation, things have to be spelt out. And the letter that came with my tickets for Sunday indicated strongly that I should check the website for details of proscribed items.<br />
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Of course it is not really a valid comparison -- a European football match a third of a century ago and an all American event that is little more than coincidentally on British soil. In 1977, we had experienced 32 years of peace, whereas in 2013, one feels that we're almost on a war footing.<br />
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Or so it would seem from the list of banned items. This is all, and I kid you not, taken from the website. And while some of it undoubtedly makes sense, other items take a bit of explaining. I can understand for instance a restriction on "bottles", "weapons" and "knives". There are, after all, always a few dimwits who think that a knife is as essential as a wallet. But do we really need to be told that we should not bring explosives to the ground. I can understand a ban on smoke flares (which incidentally are listed) but how many American football fans would normally attend the ball game with their pockets full of dynamite? Well, maybe in Los Angeles I suppose. <br />
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Camcorders and cameras are also banned. But what about smart phones? Let's see them try to relieve the Wembley crowd of 90,000 iPhones then. I don't think so. And binoculars are also prohibited. Bad luck if, like me, you're shortsighted. Apparently I only paid to attend the game. Actually seeing it is extra. Or maybe they're worried about people carrying binoculars full of gunpowder.<br />
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Bags are right out. Whether they are coolers, camera cases, backpacks, duffle bags or even supermarket bags, it matters not. All luggage is banned. I can just imagine the security guards quaking in terror at the sight of an army of football fans strolling down Wembley Way armed with Tesco carrier bags. If only they had been deployed in Iraq...<br />
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It gets better. Glass is forbidden. No exemptions. Just glass. So that presumably includes glass jewellery does it Mr Security Guard? No, don't look at me -- these are your rules not mine. Okay, if they are allowed, how about bracelets? Small dishes? Sushi platters? Chandeliers?<br />
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The fun police will also dispossess you of any banners in your possession or flags with poles longer than a metre -- you know, the kind of thing sports fans take to ball games. That's right. The same goes for vuvuzelas, rattles and horns. Actually I'm with them on the vuvuzelas.<br />
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No animals either, apart from the usual guide dogs. To be honest, it had never crossed my mind -- until now -- to take an animal to a football game. But now you mention it, I can see the possibilities. Already I'm formulating a plan to sneak Monty the iguana into the ground dressed as an ice cream vendor. And I can't wait to see how the locusts go down.<br />
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But this one really is a sign of the times -- there is a blanket ban on laptops and laser pointers. Indeed. Now I spend more time than most in front of a computer screen but even I suspect I can get through a couple of hours of football without recourse to PowerPoint. I mean really -- not even Bill Gates would take a computer to a sporting event.<br />
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My favourite prohibition is probably the blanket ban on pool and beach equipment. No beachballs are allowed near the hallowed turf. And goodness knows what the security guards would make of rubber rings, lilos, dinghies and inflatable crocodiles. It's nearly November -- who on earth is thinking about pool accessories four days before Halloween?<br />
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And you're not to bring hairspray with you. Now I don't want to trigger a gender war here but I'm prepared to bet that most of the crowd at this game will be male. And, whilst just about plausible for the fairer sex, I struggle to believe that there will be any male hair grooming emergency of sufficient severity as to require the immediate application of hairspray. Call me old-fashioned but I am prepared to bet that they will not be a single man travelling to the game with a can of hairspray about his person. In any case there is no room in his pockets -- they're full of dynamite.<br />
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Incidentally there is also a ban on pepper spray and mace. Probably wise -- you wouldn't want to confuse that with hairspray.<br />
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But I've saved the best till last -- Wembley has, believe it or not, a ban on footballs. Understandable really -- I mean who would want to see a football at Wembley...Jon Stamfordhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10784772414018652597noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-31523110860897814632013-10-19T08:46:00.002+01:002013-10-19T08:46:22.863+01:00Anton's cat<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-size: small;">When you reach my age, birthdays are less a cause for celebration than for surprise that one is still around. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">It was my birthday yesterday and my daughters particularly excelled themselves this year, finding ever more creative ways of telling me that I'm old. Catherine's card, over a picture of a particularly lugubrious Bassett hound, bore the words "Another birthday and another year older -- it's hard to keep the joy and excitement under control" while Alice's contribution read chillingly "In dog years, you're dead". </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">If you take my birthday as beginning when my daughters handed over their birthday cards, then my birthday had technically started on Wednesday when I met the girls for a meal in London, as we do from time to time.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">The deal is very straightforward. The girls invite a parent out for a meal. All eat. Parent pays. Despite the certainty, I've noticed that there is nonetheless a certain etiquette to be followed at the conclusion of the meal. Although it is tacitly understood that the parent will pay (they are after all penniless students), we still go through the fumbling-around-in-the-handbag-because-we-will-split-the-bill ritual before the parent offers to pay. This is of course followed by the oh-well-if-you're-absolutely-sure ritual of feigned surprise. Occasionally, a peck on the cheek and the you're-the-best-mum/dad* (*delete as applicable)-in-the-world ritual brings matters to a conclusion. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">I am met at Charing Cross station by my daughters, Alice wearing a new dark lipstick that lends her a certain Cruella Daville mien. But when it comes to scary, I can top them all. Somehow earlier in the day, and largely unbeknownst to me, I have managed to burst a blood vessel in my right eye and, whilst it does not cause me any particular difficulty, does tend to unsettle others. In fact, the whole eye is red to the point where I look one of those Tory scaremongering election posters about Tony Blair. Catherine has a sharp intake of breath when I look up from my newspaper before telling me that I look like Scar from The Lion King.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">On this particular occasion, and presumably because my daughters find themselves especially hungry, we go to an "all you can eat" sushi bar in Covent Garden where we eat -- well -- sushi, washed down with plum wine and sake. Incidentally, all-you-can-eat is not very much with sushi. Despite the fact that it looks like little more than a few bits of rice glued together with wallpaper paste, it doesn't take many nigiri, sashimi or kakinoha to fill you up.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">That was Wednesday. My actual birthday, Friday, had been set aside for filming. We had to prepare publicity films for a forthcoming patient meeting. Eros, our video expert, takes one look at me and shakes his head. "There's no way we can film" he says "you look like a zombie with that eye". I draw his attention to the fact that the broadcast will be going out on Halloween and suggest therefore this is less of an issue. He is unmoved by this argument and is already packing up the studio lights before I can reason further.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">It is not long after I arrive home that Freia appears, bearing gifts. She has abandoned her brother to monopoly with the kids and turns up with a rather fine bottle of Tokai, one of my absolute favourite dessert wines, and home-made biscotti. Claire opens a bottle of wine (mercifully not the Tokai) and we set about rectifying the world's problems. Not least of which is Anton who, despite intending to take a half day on Friday, is still at home at nine o'clock.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">I'm still not quite sure how the idea originated but somehow it is mooted that, as a special birthday treat, I might like to drive Anton's Jag to pick him up from the station. Bear in mind that I have not driven the car before and will be driving it on my insurance, I suggest that a little familiarisation might not go amiss. Amazingly Freia agrees and we take the beast for a snarl up the dual carriageway. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">It has to be said that the beast is a wonderful thing to drive. Especially on the open road -- you always have the sense that it is champing at the bit in town but, once out on the dual carriageway, it can -- how shall I say -- express itself a little better. It is beautifully poised and enormously powerful -- I ought to know since I persuaded him to buy it. It is with some reluctance that I drop Freia at her house and head to the station to pick up Anton.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Top birthday present. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Thankfully Anton's eyesight is good enough in the darkness to realise, before kissing me, that it is not his wife at the controls.</span></span><br />Jon Stamfordhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10784772414018652597noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-14377290710443369862013-10-13T08:57:00.000+01:002013-10-13T08:57:05.404+01:00Waistline v Wardrobe<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-size: small;">In the war being waged between waistline and wardrobe, it is increasingly clear that there will only be one winner. I came to this stark realisation about a month before Montréal. In a rare episode of self organisation, I decided to check just how many of my trousers actually still fit me.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">The sensible answer that question should of course be all of them. If they are in the wardrobe then, by definition, they should fit you, right. Unfortunately in my case, my reaction to increasing girth (and therefore decreasing available clothing) has always been to retain the clothes on the spurious grounds that I will, one day, slim down enough to wear them again.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Leaving aside the absurd overoptimism of this philosophy -- my weight increases as inexorably as the tides come in - there is the question of fashion. Anyone who's ever met me knows that I am not prey to the vagaries of fashion but, even if I were able to slim down sufficiently, there is little point in squeezing unwilling flesh into bell bottom jeans and flower power shirts. Unless of course I want to look like a pimp. Or audition for Starsky and Hutch. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">There are garments here my mother made me. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">And if I was too fat to fit into them in 1978, the chances of me achieving that objective in 2013 are approximately one divided by Avogadro's number. Unless I ever wish to mince down the street looking like the love child of Huggy Bear and Jabba the Hutt, the clothes have to go. And I'm amazed to discover that even charity shops draw the line somewhere. Oxfam have stopped returning my calls.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">The last time I had a wardrobe clear out, I mistakenly asked my younger daughter Alice, sharp tongued fashionista that she is, for assistance. By the time she was finished, 90% of my clothing was in the bin. The rest was on Facebook. And my entire remaining wardrobe consisted of little more than a pair of Y fronts. It felt like a mugging.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Anyway, to cut a long story short, I decided that I needed a couple of suits, for Montréal and beyond. And rather than risk seeing them appear at some future point on Alice's Facebook above acronyms like LOL and LMAO, I settled fleetinglu on classic English tailoring before a quick shuffle round Austin Reed and Marks & Spencer swiftly dispossessed me of that notion. Classical though their suits were, they appeared at first sight to be priced in Italian Lira. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">And then I had a brainwave. Why not try eBay. After all, everybody on the planet seems to be selling stuff to everybody else on the planet. Somebody somewhere must be selling a suit or two that would fit the bill. Certainly Claire, my wife, seems to think so. New dresses arrive practically hourly. And many, I have to admit, look pretty good.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">The key to eBay, I've learnt, is to bid and forget. Tap in the highest price you are prepared to pay, click 'send' and forget about it. If you start to monitor the price shifts, you will find yourself quickly paying more than you intended. It's human competitiveness in action. The same misplaced enthusiasm that annually plays havoc at the Harrods sale. Just click and go. Sometimes you will win, sometimes not. Shrug your shoulders. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">I placed what I thought were relatively derisory bids on a few clothes items with short deadlines and, later that day, found myself the owner of a dark two piece Next suit for £10 and, best of all, a beige/cream linen suit for the princely sum of 99 pence. Both fit nicely and the linen suit especially works well -- very much the Englishman abroad. A sort of 'Our Man in Havana' look minus the panama. And the gin and tonic. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Buoyed by my success, I also picked up a pale duck egg blue linen jacket. Although it looks excellent, even on me, I'm not sure it will stay. Catherine said it looked "pretty fly" while Alex gave me a wink and said I looked like "a player". Alice has yet to pronounce judgement.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Should I be worried?</span></span><br />Jon Stamfordhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10784772414018652597noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-489548609375906347.post-52955742640305948622013-10-11T11:12:00.000+01:002013-10-11T11:12:21.557+01:00Plain speaking<div>
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Montréal was a remarkable epiphany for many who attended. Particularly among the patients but also, if a little less obvious, among the researchers, there was a genuine sense of community, a perceptible family bond. There was the feeling that we were each looking out for each other. Many of us vowed as much. And although we arrived as separate groups, within three days we were one tribe. A feast of friends.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Parkinson's is a notoriously variable condition with some barely noting deterioration year on year while other less fortunate patients seem to be plummeting toward akinesia. And the speed of progression can vary even for any one individual. Whenever people with Parkinson's meet, they invariably ask two questions. First, "when were you diagnosed?" and, secondly, "what are you taking?". And these questions are loaded. They are to help you establish whether your interlocutor is doing better or worse than you. In other words to provide reassurance to the questioner. It doesn't always work. I lose track of the number of people who have had the condition a decade longer, yet appear ready to face an Olympic decathlon while I struggle with the 25 m waddle.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">In Montréal it was both reassuring and alarming to see the extent to which some friends had changed. Or not. And I'm not talking solely about motor symptoms. Montréal had it all -- people who were unmedicated and others who were popping pills like going out of fashion. For every well-controlled, carefully managed Parky, there were at least as many who were either accidentally or deliberately making life needlessly difficult for themselves.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">This brings me to my point. And if I can couch this in the form of a question, it is this: how long should one stand by and watch friends harm themselves either by refusing medication or overdosing? Should I stand by and let my friends destroy themselves or should I risk their friendship and intervene?</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Maybe you take the view that it's their life and I have no right to impose my thoughts upon them. Perhaps you're right.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">But perhaps also that's the coward's way out. A way of justifying your inaction. A way of making you comfortable with your refusal to grasp the nettle.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">It's not a simple matter. Have you ever tried to make a delusional, obsessive, impulsive man realise that popping dopamine agonists like Smarties does not make him the life and soul of the party. It makes him a junkie. The last decade has shown us clearly the dark side of agonist abuse. And it can take you to some pretty dark places.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">At the other end, what do you do with a friend whose stubborn refusal to take medication is quietly killing him. When I was diagnosed in 2006, the jury was still out on whether early medication had any advantage. That's changed. The old days of "wait-and-see" are gone. The scientific data now overwhelmingly shows that early medication improves quality of life and that if you delay, you will never catch up. By the time you decide to take medication, there will be no benefit left. The horse will have bolted.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I've been wrestling with this all night. Is it any of my business? Do I say nothing and watch this wilful self-destruction? Or do I of speak out, and lose their friendship? Do I value their friendship above their lives?</span></div>
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